Start Where You Are: 3 Levels of Marriage Coaching
Maybe they asked for space last night, or maybe you've felt like roommates for years. Every level is built on the Trinity of Trust, and each one meets you where you are. The Guidance Membership helps you with what's happening right now. The Mastermind teaches you the complete Relationship Restoration system and helps you apply it. VIP personalizes that system to you and gives you direct access to me.
Level One
Guidance Membership
$97 / month
Help with what's happening right now.
Ongoing relationship help for the moments that can't wait: the fight that just happened, the text you're about to send, the 2 a.m. spiral when you can't tell what's real.
What's included
- 24/7 access to the Dr. Luke AI Coach ("They packed a bag tonight. Please, what do I do?")
- The Q&A Library, with answers drawn from my relationship education and knowledge bank ("If I stop texting them, will they think I gave up?")
- Thoughtful follow-up questions that help you go deeper ("You said they went quiet. What happened right before that?")
- Interactive conversations that help you reflect on your situation and recognize your patterns ("Why am I always the one who apologizes first?")
- Practical insight into relationships, emotional reactions, trust, communication, and more ("Why do I shut down the second they raise their voice?")
- Ask as many questions as you need.
Your Dr. Luke AI Coach has been given everything I've ever said, written, and taught, so it thinks like me. At this level, it gives you general answers in everyday language, and each conversation starts fresh. When you're ready to do the real rebuilding, the full program lives in the next two levels.
Start Your Guidance MembershipGuidance Membership: $97 a month per person. Renews every month until you cancel. Cancel anytime. No refunds for partial months. Membership terms
Level Two · Where the work happens
Mastermind
$3,000 once · lifetime program access
You've talked it out, read the books, maybe even tried counseling, and you keep landing in the same fight, the same silence, the same distance. The Mastermind teaches you the complete Relationship Restoration system, step by step, so you stop guessing and start changing the pattern, with a live call every week and the Dr. Luke AI Coach for the moments it's hardest to use.
What's included
- Everything in the Guidance Membership
- The full 5 phase, 33 module, 64 hour program, built on the Trinity of Trust
- A weekly live call specific to the phase you're in
- Access to the full call library, forever
- Dr. Luke AI Coach that keeps pace with your phase ("I'm on emotional safety and I just snapped at them")
- Private 1:1 sessions at the $300 member rate, 30 minutes each
Ready now? Join the Mastermind or join as a couple
Level Three
VIP
$5,000 once · lifetime program access
Your situation isn't a textbook case. Maybe there's an affair, kids caught in the middle, or a separation that feels like it's running out of time, and general advice keeps missing the part that matters most. VIP shapes the whole system around your story and puts me in it with you for the steepest part of the climb. My most successful clients joined VIP from the beginning.
What's included
- Everything in the Mastermind
- 12 private 30-minute sessions with me (6 hours, to use within your first 120 days)
- Booked directly on my calendar
- Every session after that is $250, the lowest rate I offer
- Dr. Luke AI Coach that remembers you ("It's 2 a.m. again, isn't it? Talk to me.")
- Conversation roleplay (rehearse tonight's talk so you don't fall apart)
- Restoration Roadmap (your plan for this week, so you're not guessing)
- Session prep and follow-up (bring what broke this week, leave with a plan)
Ready now? Join VIP or join VIP as a couple
What Changes at Each Level of the Marriage Coaching Program
| Feature | Guidance Membership | Mastermind | VIP |
|---|---|---|---|
| Price | $97 / month | $3,000 once | $5,000 once |
| Couples | Individual only | $4,500 for both | $7,500 for both |
| Help with what's happening now | |||
| Dr. Luke AI Coach | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Searchable Q&A Library | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Lesson and exercise recommendations | Not included | ✓ | ✓ |
| The complete system | |||
| Full program: 5 phases, 33 modules, 64 hours | Not included | ✓ | ✓ |
| Lifetime program access | Not included | ✓ | ✓ |
| Weekly live call for your phase, plus the call library, for life | Not included | ✓ | ✓ |
| AI coaching that keeps pace with your phase | Not included | ✓ | ✓ |
| Personalized to you | |||
| Personal relationship profile | Not included | Not included | ✓ |
| AI that remembers your story | Not included | Not included | ✓ |
| Conversation roleplay | Not included | Not included | ✓ |
| Saved conversation history | Not included | Not included | ✓ |
| Personal goals and progress | Not included | Not included | ✓ |
| Personal Restoration Roadmap | Not included | Not included | ✓ |
| AI connected to your private coaching | Not included | Not included | ✓ |
| Included private coaching | Not included | Not included | 6 hours (12 for couples) |
| Private coaching with me | |||
| Per 30-minute session | $400 | $300 | $250 |
| Ways to pay | Monthly, by credit card | Credit card in full, Afterpay, or Klarna*** | Credit card in full, Afterpay, or Klarna*** |
***Paying by credit card? Some people use a card with a 0% intro APR on purchases, so they can pay it off over the intro period without interest. Check the card's terms first.
Can You Spot the Difference? Same Question, Three Levels of Coaching
Your Dr. Luke AI Coach gives a real answer at every level. What changes is how much it has to work with.
Why a Shared Understanding Changes the Answer
The Relationship Restoration Program teaches specific terms, tools, and exercises, phase by phase. Once you've learned one, your Dr. Luke AI Coach uses it, because it knows you understand what it means. That's why the same question gets a deeper answer as you go up.
Think about a truck that squeals when it starts. To the husband, "the serpentine belt is slipping, so I need a new belt and a tensioner" is a complete answer. To his wife, who has never worked on an engine, it's a string of words, and his one-sentence answer turns into a ten-minute lesson. Flip it: she keeps six kinds of flour for bread, and "use bread flour and let it autolyse" says everything to another baker and nothing to him. Neither one is smarter. They just don't share the same understanding, so the person who knows has to translate, simplify, and leave things out.
Your coach works the same way. In the Guidance Membership, every conversation starts fresh and answers come in everyday language, because you haven't learned the program's terms yet. In the Mastermind you have, so once you've learned the vagal brake, the Seven Disguises of Desire, or Talk to Heal, your coach uses those exact tools, tells you which module they came from, and never jumps to a phase you haven't reached. In VIP it also learns your situation, your goals, and what we've worked on in private sessions, and it saves your conversations, so it starts where you left off instead of from zero. It also builds your Restoration Roadmap for the week and gives you suggested next steps, so you're never guessing what to do next.
A note on the truck and the flour: they're examples only, and they lean on familiar stereotypes on purpose because that makes the point fast. They aren't a statement about what men or women know, care about, or are good at.
Same Question, Three Levels
Guidance Membership
"I can hear how scared you are of losing your family, and that fear makes every minute of silence feel dangerous. Here's what helps most right now. Before you do anything, calm your body with slow, deep breaths until your heart stops racing. Then respect what they asked for. Pushing for answers, sending long messages, or asking if there's someone else usually pushes a person further away. If you need to say something, keep it to one short, kind line: 'I understand. Take the time you need. I'm here when you're ready.' If you have kids together, keep those conversations short, calm, and about the kids. Then turn the energy toward yourself tonight: sleep, eat something, and talk to someone you trust, so you're not carrying this alone."
Mastermind (a member in Phase 2, Module 4)
"That panic to fix it tonight is the urgency illusion, one of the Seven Disguises of Desire from Phase 1, Module 7: nothing is ever urgent, and there's no such thing as too late. Here's what to do with it. First, use the vagal brake from Module 5. Stand up and do the weight shift, or take slow, deep breaths until you're back in the seat of consciousness. Second, honor the space. Remember the cornered cat from Module 2: the more you reach in, the harder they fight to get out. Skip the TBU questions like 'Are you seeing someone?' If they reach out, keep it short, because low trust calls for shorter messages (Phase 2, Module 3), and use the closing from Talk to Heal in Module 6: 'I understand. Whenever you're ready, I'm here to listen.' Third, put tonight's energy into you. Write in your gratitude journal, then record an auto-suggestion from this week's module for the next time the urge hits."
VIP (sample member Jordan, same module)
"Jordan, this is the hardest stretch of the two weeks, so let's look at what's actually happening. Every text you sent last week went out after 10 p.m., right after you'd been looking at old photos or their Instagram. On the three nights you did the weight shift and your gratitude journal first, you didn't text at all. So tonight isn't really about what they decide. It's what you and Dr. Luke found on Tuesday: when someone you love goes quiet, it feels like your dad leaving all over again, and a text buys you a few minutes of certainty. Keeping your word on these two weeks is the most trustworthy thing you can do for your family right now. Put your phone in the kitchen, do the weight shift, and play the auto-suggestion you recorded. For Sunday's handoff, stick with the line you practiced: 'Thanks for being flexible. I know these weeks are hard on all of us.' What were you looking at right before you messaged me tonight?"
These examples show the difference in depth, and real conversations will vary. Your Dr. Luke AI Coach thinks the way I do, but it isn't me, and it can't tell you what your spouse is thinking.
How to Get Help at 2 A.M. Without Waiting for a Call
Every level comes with the Relationship Support Hub, a private space for the moments that can't wait, like the fight that just happened or the text you're about to send.
Ask Your Dr. Luke AI Coach
Tell it what happened in your own words ("They just walked out in the middle of the fight. Do I follow them or let them go?"). It helps you slow down, see the pattern you're in, and decide what to do next.
Practice before the real conversation Available only in VIP
Worried you'll get defensive when you talk tonight? In VIP, your Dr. Luke AI Coach knows your situation and the phase you're in, so it can play the other person realistically, then step out of the role and coach you on what happened: where you listened, where pressure crept in, and what you could say instead. It plays a made-up partner. It doesn't pretend to know how your spouse will react. This is available only in the VIP membership.
Example. You: "Can we talk about last night? I didn't like how it ended." Partner, played by the AI: "I'm not doing this again. Every talk turns into a fight." You: "It turns into a fight because you never listen." Coach, stepping out of the role: "That last line put your partner on the defensive. Try: 'You're right, it keeps going badly, and I don't want that either. Can I start by just listening?'"
Recommended for you Mastermind and VIP
The Hub suggests the lessons, exercises, and Q&A answers that fit what you're working through in the program.
My Program and My Coaching
Mastermind and VIP members see their lessons and current phase here. Each week we come together as a community for a live call built around the phase you're in, and every call is saved to the call library, so you can go back and rewatch any of them whenever you need to. VIP members also see their included hours, what's booked, what's left, their roadmap, and their own session recordings.
What you won't find here
There's no feed, no comment threads, and no strangers giving advice about a marriage they've never seen. In the middle of a crisis, you don't need to take on other people's anger and grief or measure your story against theirs. Everything in the Hub is private to you.
Here's the Truth About the Questions Everyone Is Afraid to Ask
The Q&A Library is built from real questions asked on past group and private coaching calls. Each one is rewritten so nobody can be identified, and I approve every answer before it goes in.
The library teaches. Your Dr. Luke AI Coach applies it to you.
Most of these questions don't have a yes or no answer, so the library doesn't pretend they do. Here's an example.
Should I contact my spouse after they asked for space? It depends on what they actually asked for (a few days, no contact, or just less pressure), whether you share kids or a home that need practical contact, whether there's been an affair, what happened the last few times you reached out, and whether you feel safe. If they asked for no contact and nothing practical needs handling, honoring that usually does more for the relationship than another message. If you share kids, keep contact about the kids, short and calm. If you don't feel safe, your safety comes first.
Not Sure Which Situation Fits Yours? Ask Your Dr. Luke AI Coach.
Stop Starting Over Every Time You Ask for Help
In VIP, with your permission, your coach keeps track of what you'd otherwise have to explain from the beginning every time:
- Where things stand: separated, living together, after an affair, or somewhere in between
- What you're working toward, and what keeps getting in the way
- What you practiced, what you agreed to try, and how it went
- The hard conversation coming up this week
Your Personal Restoration Roadmap
After your first session, we build a roadmap around your situation: where things stand, what matters most right now, the lessons that fit, and your steps for this week. It updates as you move through the program and our sessions.
You decide what it remembers
You can see what your coach remembers, correct it, or delete it at any time.
6 Hours of Private Coaching With Dr. Luke, Shaped Around Your Situation
VIP includes 6 hours of private coaching with me, and 12 hours for couples to share.
How your hours work
- Sessions are 30 minutes, and each one uses 1 credit. A full hour uses 2.
- 6 hours is 12 credits. Couples get 24.
- For couples, credits measure my time, not how many people are on the call. If you both come to a 30-minute session together, it's still 1 credit, not 2, and a 30-minute session with just one of you is also 1 credit.
- Your included hours need to be used within your first 120 days.
- Need to cancel? Cancel at least 24 hours ahead and the credit goes back to you. Later cancellations and no-shows use the credit.
- Your sessions are recorded for you, and the recordings stay between us.
Your coaching doesn't stop when the call ends
Before we meet, your Dr. Luke AI Coach helps you sort out what changed and what you most need my help with. Afterward, it helps you keep the takeaways, practice what we agreed on, and update your roadmap.
Why VIP Costs Less Than Buying the Same Coaching Separately
If you're weighing the Mastermind against VIP, here's the math side by side.
| For one person | Mastermind, plus coaching bought separately | VIP |
|---|---|---|
| The full program | $3,000 | Included |
| 6 hours of private coaching | $3,600(12 sessions at $300 each) | Included(12 sessions) |
| Total | $6,600 | $5,000 |
| You save with VIP | $1,600 |
| For couples | Couples Mastermind, plus coaching bought separately | Couples VIP |
|---|---|---|
| The full program for both of you | $4,500 | Included |
| 12 hours of private coaching | $7,200(24 sessions at $300 each) | Included(24 sessions) |
| Total | $11,700 | $7,500 |
| You save with couples VIP | $4,200 |
Those numbers only count the program and the coaching. They can't count what it's worth to stop guessing in the hardest season of your life: the 2 a.m. text you don't send because we've already worked through that urge together, the hard conversation you walk into knowing what you'll say, and the first talk in months where you both feel heard instead of ending with a slammed door. No table can price that, and it's exactly what VIP is built for.
Did You Know Every Extra Hour Costs $100 Less in VIP?
Once your included hours are used, private coaching continues at your VIP rate: $250 a session, instead of $300 in the Mastermind or $400 outside the program.
| Additional coaching | Not in the program($400 a session) | Mastermind($300 a session) | VIP($250 a session) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 30 minutes (1 session) | $400 | $300 | $250 |
| 1 hour (2 sessions) | $800 | $600 | $500 |
| 5 hours (10 sessions) | $4,000 | $3,000 | $2,500 |
| 10 hours (20 sessions) | $8,000 | $6,000 | $5,000 |
Compared with the Mastermind, VIP saves you $100 an hour on extra coaching, which is $1,000 over ten hours. Compared with booking outside the program, it saves $300 an hour, or $3,000 over ten.
These savings start after your included hours, so they come on top of the savings above every time you book more.
Here's What Divorce Really Costs Compared With Marriage Coaching
Nobody joins a program like this because of a spreadsheet. But when you're scared and money feels tight, it helps to see both roads with real numbers.
The lawyers. Family lawyers now charge an average of $344 an hour, according to Clio's Legal Trends data for 2025. In the last large national survey of people who went through a divorce (Martindale-Nolo), the average legal bill worked out to about 42 hours of a lawyer's time. At today's rate, that's about $14,400, and that's for one spouse. When you both hire lawyers, your household pays close to $29,000, and a divorce that ends up in court costs far more.
A second home. When one of you moves out, that person needs a place to live. According to Zillow's rent report for July 2026, the typical asking rent in the U.S. is $1,962 a month, and a single-family home, which a lot of parents need so the kids have their own rooms, is $2,314.
Where you live changes the number a lot:
| Where you live | Typical rent a month(all home sizes) | A year |
|---|---|---|
| San Jose, CA | $3,782 | $45,384 |
| New York, NY | $3,627 | $43,524 |
| Boston, MA | $3,165 | $37,980 |
| U.S. single-family home | $2,314 | $27,768 |
| Chicago, IL | $2,253 | $27,036 |
| U.S. typical, all rentals | $1,962 | $23,544 |
| Atlanta, GA | $1,855 | $22,260 |
| Nashville, TN | $1,820 | $21,840 |
| Memphis, TN | $1,422 | $17,064 |
| Louisville, KY | $1,357 | $16,284 |
Source: Zillow Observed Rent Index, July 2026. Zillow's typical rent mixes every size and type of rental, from studios to houses, so it's the middle of the market, not a specific size. Among the 50 largest U.S. metros, San Jose is the most expensive and Louisville the least.
What Would a Second Home Cost Where You Live?
Type your ZIP code and see what it would cost for one of you to rent or buy a place there, with the source and date behind every number.
That's only rent. It doesn't count the deposit, the furniture, two of every utility bill, or dividing everything you've built together. And if you have kids, no number covers splitting holidays between two homes.
The program. I can't promise your marriage will be saved, and no honest coach can. But giving it a real chance with the Mastermind or VIP costs less than one year of rent in a second home, even in the cheapest city on that list. And whatever happens next, you come out of it as someone who can hold love without fear running everything.
How to Get Started, Even If You're Not Sure It Can Be Saved
You don't have to know how this ends to take the next right step. Start with the Guidance Membership if tonight is the problem, the Mastermind if you're ready to change the pattern for good, or VIP if you're facing an emergency, like an affair or a separation that feels like it's running out of time, and you want me by your side with a plan for your week instead of facing it alone.
Have a question first? Email me at drlukehuffman@gmail.com.
Our mission
Relationship Restoration is dedicated to helping you rebuild trust and connection through our Trinity of Trust system. By focusing on self-awareness, emotional safety, and compassion, you will gain the tools to communicate effectively, heal past wounds, and create lasting, meaningful relationships in all areas of life.
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